If you’re feeling inspired and came here for some advice on resolutions, don’t be a fool. I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions and neither do you; you’re just pretending. What you’re describing as inspiration is guilt.
That’s the problem with most of us: we get confused about our feelings. We say we love our partners, but if we’d just look a little more closely, what we really feel is hate. We say our friendships are motivated by loyalty, but they’re not: it’s usually envy (how you may feel towards me) or pity (how I may feel towards you).
I’m guessing that a fair few of you are waking rather “hungover.” You probably would describe it as a headache or tummy upset, and I’ve no doubt you are ascribing it to the copious amounts of liquor you lapped up during last night’s celebrations and/or commiserations. Of course, alcohol can eff your body up good and proper, but what are you really feeling? Regret? Shame? Impregnated?
These are the symptoms no hangover cure can help you with. Fortunately, my insight into the true workings of the human body (including the mind) can. Follow these directions—to the letter—and you’ll feel better.
1. Look yourself in the face (you will probably need a mirror to do so).
2. Notice the regret in your eyes (indicated by a red tinge, drooping eyelids or dark circles).
3. Consider what caused that regret (this may be a specific event or just an acknowledgement of your general failure as a productive human being).
4. Notice the shame on your face (indicated by blotches on the skin, hickeys on the neck or the red itchiness around your mouth as an HSV-1 blister prepares to burst forth).
5. Consider what caused this shame (make a note to call for an STD/pregnancy test on Tuesday).
6. Comment aloud about how unattractive regret and shame look on you. If you live with someone, get them to tell you you’re hideous.
7. Drink one litre of freshly juiced kale, lemon and garlic (if items are not available—and they probably won’t be because you’re not one to plan ahead, are you—drink eight ounces of milk that has gone off—which I bet you’ve got at least a pint of in your fridge).
9. Splash cold water on your regret- and shame-stamped face.
10. Get into bed and think about things until you weep yourself to sleep.
I guarantee tomorrow you’ll wake up renewed and ready to change your life. Or at least your sheets.